Have
you ever felt that you would much rather stay home and work on the
coding problem that's been driving you crazy for the last week (it's
always the missing “;”) or read a good book instead of going to a
big party? Do you love your friends dearly but
sometimes you just don't want to speak to any of them? If you've
answered yes, at least once you might be an introvert.
Merriam
Webster Dictionary defines introversion as “the
state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned
with and interested in one's own mental life”.
Introverts have also been described as “people
whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during
interaction”.
Here
is a visual aid:
I've
been introduced to the subject in 2012 when browsing for TED videos I
hadn't seen yet. I stumbled upon a video by a little known at the
time author – Ms. Susan Cain.
I
have to admit the word introvert had some negative connotations for
me. It brought to mind an image of an asocial recluse. I will be the
first to admit that it was just ignorance on my part.
I
really like this video. Just by observing the manner in which she is
speaking you can tell she has described herself accurately as an
introverted person.
What
do you think about the speech? Do you relate in any way to the
stories she told? I know I do.
I've
purchased her book (which I wholeheartedly recommend), did some
additional research and generally felt better about some of my
introversion induced actions.
Fast-forward
to the present day and if my various social feeds are any indication,
the subject has gained a lot of steam in recent months.
You
can also easily observe the increased popularity in Google Trends:
For
years the interest was fairly stable but then something started
happening. You can see the volume of searches quadruple between 2008
and 2013. What do you think brought about the sudden spike in the
interest in this topic? Also, I think the real question here is what
in the world happened in August 2013?
There
is also
a
rise in searches for “extrovert” , albeit not as sharp. If you
dig deeper though, you can see that it stems from people searching
for the differences between the two.
As
an aside let me put the increased interest in context:
More
people talking about what it means to be an introvert generated some
interesting trends. If you regularly spend at least some time on the
internet (the part filled with memes and cats) you've surely seen
images like this:
and
many others like it. Being quiet is therein equate to being smart and
thoughtful. I think it's not necessarily untrue in many cases but the
gross generalization is definitely present.
Everything
I wrote about above is brilliantly summarized in this PBS video:
He
makes a great point that there is a wide range of human personalities
and people cannot be described by placing them on either of the two
points representing extroversion or introversion.
In
the spirit of the above I invite you to take the Myers-Briggs
Personality Test. Here you'll find a limited, free version.
As
a poor man's version of taking the full test and having it
professionally interpreted you can google the result and get some
interesting articles. Who knows, you might learn something new about
yourself today:)
Here
is a quick cheat sheet:
What's
your result? Do you think it describes you accurately?
Have
you noticed more people describing themselves as introverts in your
circles?
Thanks
for your time.